[SCJwl]

Well, my "dumb-a**" SIL did it again...(hubby's words, not mine). Her hubby flew out to Vegas and she stayed up partying until 3am last night. She didn't feel like going into work(her business) so she called in somebody with the excuse that there was a "family emergency". He called from there this morning and heard from the machine that the business would be closed for the emergency reason. He heard the message and called my husband.

#1 that's hubby's sister and

#2 her hubby is his boss (nothing like job security, LOL)

She didn't even try to call me since she asked me 2 days ago to watch them. Is that wrong? You'd think she would have at least made sure we were still on the same page. Anyway, she finally showed up here with the kids at 6 pm (an hour late ). Ready to go get some "wake-me-ups" from the convenience store so she could party-hardy tonight.

At least I know the kids are here in my house tonight. Ohhhhh, if daddy knew what she "might" be doing.......

If it wasn't for hubby's job......ohhh, let ya'll think about some of the things that I could tell hers.......

Anyway, that's why I appeared on here, when I wasn't. I forgot......

LOL, I turned on my monitor and was surprised to see the site still right there

[dlt]

I wouldn't be happy either. It's gotta be tough the postion that she's put your family in, especially her own brother. You have a good heart to be watching those kids.

With the stuff she's doing, some of it is bound to get back to her husband... :pissedoff:

[kanaloa]

Hope all turns out alright Ang.

I know first hand sneaking around can make people paranoid and jumpy. When the mommy's and daddy's are gone, the chillin's will play, lol.

[SCJwl]

LOL, seeing as this is a private area....

The very first time I met her, we all (me, (not yet) hubby, her and their daddy's wife went out to the bar (I found out the next day that I was pregnant with Kay ).Anyway, she was kissing and grinding all over this guy in the bar. Her (not then) hubby was still here in SC.

Then about a year ago she and I and about 3 other girls went out. Hers was gone like now, mine stayed with the kids......and the same thing happened........only she went a couple of steps further.....ahem, I won't even go there.

She told him about the first, but he doesn't know about the second. And I thought I was wild until I met her

[kanaloa]

I tend to wonder about people like that. Naturally I tend to psychoanalyze them and figure out what caused them to "be the way they are." I think she can "be the way she is" because her mind doesn't tell her it's wrong, or that she shouldn't do it. It's basic learned behavior. I would assume, knowing most of you all who will read this that you'll have a varying degree of reactions. Some of you will gasp "oh she's going to hell" and others will probably smile and laugh it off as "an adult who never 'grew up'". Just as we look at how she acts in our own way, she must as well... and to her, it's fine. Even if it's not fine in her mind, she's simply moving past it once it's done. Chances are the only reason she told her husband was fear of him finding out another way. By telling him herself she wasn't so much making her self feel better, but simply preventing herself problems down the road.

Just my 2 cents. Can ya tell I've been doing a lot of reading lately? LOL

[SCJwl]

You hit it Johnny. That's exactly what she told me. Does it surprise you all that she used to strip before she met him. And that just over a year ago he bought a boat, to which she said, then I want a b**b job.

Bo's got some money. That's why my hubby has said if it comes down to it.....and she does "something".....he's going with his bro-in-law. Go with the money.

Honestly, she doesn't deserve what he works for. And it pisses me off.

We try so hard to make ends meet. One income. And she ran up a credit card 7000.00 last year on what? He pays all bills. Plus she gets gets a check for (500 something) as an employee every week from him.(Even though she "bought her own business" last year.

Whatever. That's the kind of thing that makes me not feel bad for anyone.

The people that can just do whatever they want to. It aggravates me to no end.

[Mac33]

Life feels unfair sometimes Angie, but you have something she will never have and that is dignity and self respect. We all have a conscience and she know's well what she is doing. Some people cannot accept responsibility and settle down and they keep looking for something obscure in the hope that it will make them happy. She sounds a very dissatisfied person, and everything will all come tumbling down round about her if she doesn't start facing her responsibilities and having more respect for herself.

[SCJwl]

Ahhhhhhh, if you only knew what happened this morning.

I'll post tomorrow about it. I don't even want to be serious tonight.

Who's go the drinks?

[RIP!]