my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

My first wife of 25 years was unfaithful to me almost from the very beginning, and I tolerated it until the children were grown, simply because I believed in the marriage vows.

The final straw on the camels back was the gambling, that ran the credit cards up to the max, and took me years to dig out from after our divorce.

You have several options, and really only you can decide which way is best for you to go.

You do need to confront her, and it would be best if you had a witness or two, and to have them present.

Moved here. Introduction Area is not the proper location